Neurodiversity - a straight forward explanation and neuro-affirming approach

What is neurodiversity?

The York Centre's approach is neurodiversity affirming. Psychotherapists are highly experienced at helping clients to navigate life experiences and wellbeing issues, understanding people's brain design.

Neurodiversity is a way in which we can describe neurological differences in how the brain can work. It is estimated that neurodivergent individuals make up at least 20% of the population.

In Human Givens, we describe neurotypical and neurodiverse as our brain design. We passionately believe that there is no single "right" way of thinking, feeling and being. But, having a clearer understanding about your brain design, can make a very valuable contribution to help you live a life in a better balance.

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In definitions, neurodiversity includes autism, ADHD, dyslexia, dyspraxia, dyscalculia, dysgraphia, dyspraxia, tourettes syndrome, sensory processing disorder (SPD), developmental language disorder (DLD) and obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD). Some psychologists believe that bipolar disorder should also be part of the neurodivergence umbrella.

All of our therapists embrace and celebrate difference. Sessions are designed to bring insights whether your brain design is neurotypical or neurodiverse. We value the insight and lens that each client brings to their life and understanding of the world.

A neuro-affirming approach to therapy

One fundamental benefit of therapy is to understand yourself more deeply and what you want to do in order that your life is in a better balance.

We offer practical, emotional and psychological support which is neuro-affirming. That is advice and support that aligns with how your mind naturally processes the world.

We share lots of psychoeducation information to help understand how the brain, body and nervous system works. This can help people to feel in greater acceptane and more at peace with how the brain works and how it connects with their identity. By lowering the emotional arousal and feeling more grounded, it can be easier to access other innate and personal resources to aid your personal growth.

Techniques, strategies and approaches are also bespoke to your brain design. We understand that generic advice doesn't necessarily work. It's about understanding your individuality and unique experience of the world, and walking alongside you offering bespoke neuro-affirming solutions to try.

After engaging in therapy, you may decide that having a formal assessment may still help you to reach a deeper understanding and acceptance of yourself, make sense of the past or bring clarity to your life moving forward. There are also potential organisation adjustments and support you can access.

At the same time, many people we work with decide that they don't need or want a formal diagnosis. They decide that they can achieve what they want through therapy and coaching when supported by someone who understands neurodiversity.

How you may experience being neurodiverse or neurodivergent

If you have ever felt like the world wasn’t quite built for the way your mind works, you are not alone. Here are a few examples of how neurodivergent people may experience their lives: 

How we process the world

Sensory landscapes: Sounds, lights, textures or spaces can feel intensely magnified or deeply comforting, making environments either overwhelming or deeply grounding.
Cognitive mapping: Your brain might solve problems in non-linear leaps, seeing brilliant patterns and connections that others easily miss.
Information flow: Processing spoken instructions, reading text or organizing numbers can take extra energy, requiring unique tools and pacing to unlock your full potential.
The energy battery: Everyday routines—like switching between tasks, starting a new project, or managing time—can drain your mental battery much faster than expected.

How we connect and navigate socially

The weight of masking: Many neurodivergent people spend years consciously or unconsciously hiding their natural traits, movements or communication styles just to fit in.
Communication styles: Many people prefer deep, direct and authentic communication, sometimes finding standard social small talk or unwritten social rules confusing.
Deep-dive passions: When a topic or hobby captures your interest, you dive in completely, experiencing a profound sense of joy, hyperfocus and expertise.
The need for recovery: Because the world operates at a different frequency, you often need intentional, quiet downtime to reset your nervous system.

The strengths of a neurodiverse mind

Radical authenticity: Neurodivergent individuals can bring immense honesty, empathy and unique perspectives to relationships and communities.
Innate innovation: Thinking outside the box isn't a skill you practice—it is simply how your mind naturally approaches challenges.
Hyper-specialised skills: From creative arts and complex logic to deep empathy and systemic thinking, your brain has specific, powerful strengths.